Rooting into Stability, Worth, and Embodied Presence

Volume 5 Issue 1 | May 6th 2025

The Earth Reminds Us That

We Are Already Enough

After April’s wild celebration of creative expression, May arrives like a calming breath. The energy settles. The wind slows. The soil warms.

In Vedic Astrology, we now move into Taurus season—governed by Venus (Shukra) and aligned with the Earth element. Taurus is about stability, self-worth, sensual embodiment, and staying grounded in a world that constantly pulls us in a thousand directions.

For me, Taurus is the season of coming home to my body—of remembering that I don’t need to chase value or perform for it. I am valuable. I am worthy. And my presence is enough.

Taurus in Vedic Astrology: The Stabilizer

Taurus is associated with fixed earth—slow, solid, secure. It governs the second house in the chart:

  • Self-worth

  • Values and possessions

  • Material security

  • Sensory pleasure

A well-balanced Taurus energy helps us:

  • Feel grounded and calm

  • Trust in our inherent worth

  • Enjoy pleasure without excess

  • Build stability through consistent effort

But when Taurus energy is imbalanced, we may experience:

  • Stagnation or stubbornness

  • Attachment to comfort

  • Over-reliance on material validation

  • Resistance to necessary change

Tantra teaches us that the Earth element is not about being stuck—it’s about being rooted. When you feel unworthy or unstable, the invitation is to reconnect with your body, your breath, and the ground beneath you.

Tantra & the Earth Element: Worth Through Presence

In Tantra, the first chakra (Muladhara) is the home of survival, safety, and embodiment. It’s the place where the divine becomes physical. And it’s where most of us hold our deepest fears about not being enough.

But the Earth whispers a different story:

You are held. You belong. You are sacred just as you are.

Working with Taurus energy reminds us that self-worth doesn’t come from doing more—it comes from being more present.

Practices to Ground into Worth and Stability

Earthing Ritual – Stand barefoot on the Earth. Feel the weight of your body. Repeat: “I belong here. I am safe here.”

Sensory Awareness Meditation – Slow down and savor a meal, a scent, or a touch. Let yourself fully feel it.

Mantra for Taurus/Venus: “Om Shukraya Namaha” – Chant to cultivate embodied beauty and self-worth.

Muladhara Activation – Focus on your pelvic floor in meditation. Imagine roots growing down from your spine into the Earth.

Today’s Thought Exercises:

  1. What Does Stability Mean to You? Is it financial, emotional, spiritual? How do you cultivate it in your life?

  2. Where Are You Seeking Worth Outside of Yourself? Notice if you rely on validation, status, or success to feel valuable. What would shift if you already believed you were enough?

  3. How Do You Nurture Your Body? Your body is the temple of your worth. What rituals help you feel grounded and supported in it?

Join us in the TantraSD Facebook community group and leave your response in today's thread!

Special Invitation:

We continue the journey of embodiment and emotional safety this month inside:
🧡 The Compassion Project: The Language of Love
Our 10-week course weaving Tantra and Nonviolent Communication. Discover how safety, self-worth, and connection are built from the inside out.
Click here to join us or learn more.

And stay tuned—this month’s New Moon Ceremony will focus on grounding your intentions and cultivating inner security through breath, movement, and ritual.

🌑 Monday May 12th - Details and ticket links below.

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In Service


Shiva J
Transformational Empowerment Coach
The Heart Centered Being LLC

www.TheHeartCenteredBeing.com
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www.TheSacredKings.com
Facilitator Tantra Speed Date® San Diego

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Pink Events = Sensuality//Sensual Touch//Some Clothing May be removed, no sexual expressions allowed.

Red Event = Clothing Optional//Erotic Energy Exchange//Sexual Expression may be allowed.

MULTIDAY WORKSHOPS & RETREATS

The Compassion Project: The Language of Love

10-Week Coaching Program

Mondays Starting July 7th | 6:00pm PST | 9:00pm EST


This is my 10-week course on Nonviolent Communication, sacred listening, and healing your inner voice.

The Sacred Kings

Virtual Transformational Men's Group

Tuesdays | 6:00pm PST | 9:00pm EST

A space for men to shed their armor and allow themselves to be fully seen by like minded brothers.

Clothing Optional Yoga:

Yin/Slow Flow/Yoga Nidra

Experience the benefits of yoga, dance, and massage with private sessions, classes and workshops!

Awaken As Love

California Tantra Festival

http://California-festival.com

 WORKSHOPS & EVENTS

PLEASURE SCHOOL w/Jonathan and Heike

How to Be Each Other’s Sexual Healer

@private residence (Rancho Peñasquitos)

Tuesday 05-06-2025 | 7:00pm-9:00pm

Explore how presence, love, and intentional touch become the most powerful tools for healing, connection, and transformation.

Intro to Nonviolent Communication

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Thursday 05-08-2025 | 6:30pm-9:00pm

Intro to NVC-Nonviolent Communication Workshop

TANTRA DATE NIGHT (for couples!)

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Friday 05-09-2025 | 6:30pm-10:00pm

Get ready for an unforgettable night of Tantra exploration with your partner, where you'll ignite sparks, & deepen your connection.

TANTRA DATE NIGHT (for couples!)

@Love Yoga, (Venice, Los Angeles)

Saturday 05-10-2025 | 6:30pm-10:00pm

Anyone from San Diego want to drive to LA with me and help me seed the community up there?

Tantra Speed Date (Meet Singles) (OC)

@ The Heart Space(Laguna Woods)

Sunday 05-11-2025 | 5:30pm-8:30pm

The speed dating event with a 94.09% match rate! Spend the night meeting singles and play fun relationship skill-building games.

May Full Moon Ceremony

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Monday 05-12-2025 | 6:30pm-10:00pm

Join us under the radiant May Full Moon for an evening of celebration, reflection, and embodiment. Tap into your inner wisdom and honor the fullness of your journey.

Tantra Speed Date (Meet Singles) (Encinitas)

@ Dance Place (Encinitas)

Friday 05-16-2025 | 7:00pm-10:00pm

The speed dating event with a 94.09% match rate! Spend the night meeting singles and play fun relationship skill-building games.

XOXOXO A Workshop on Healing Through Human Touch

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Saturday 05-17-2025 | 7:00pm-11:00pm

A Workshop on Healing Through Human Touch

The Laya Yoga Connection

w/Rani Ranee and Shiva J

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Sunday 05-18-2025 | 12:00pm-4:00pm

Join Rani Ranee and Shiva J for an unforgettable journey into the ancient art of Laya Yoga Practice. Whether you’re single or partnered, this workshop offers a safe, sacred space to explore the depths of your inner world, awaken your kundalini energy, and deepen your connection to yourself and others.

PLEASURE SCHOOL:

Speak Your Desires w/Jonathan Hudson

@private residence (Rancho Peñasquitos)

Thursday 05-20-2025 | 7:00pm-9:00pm

A Somatic Classroom for Lovers

Sacred Community:

a Co-Ed Circle for connection and growth

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Thursday 05-22-2025 | 6:30pm-10:00pm

Join our monthly gathering to explore authentic connection through Sacred Intimacy, Livelihood, and Kingdom themes. Experience guided practices that nurture communication and deep connection in a safe, supportive space. Limited to 24 spots—reserve yours and embark on a journey of transformation!

Tantra Speed Date (Meet Singles) (Encinitas)

@ Dance Place (Encinitas)

Friday day 05-23-2025 | 7:00pm-10:00pm

The speed dating event with a 94.09% match rate! Spend the night meeting singles and play fun relationship skill-building games.

A Tantric Exploration of Kundalini Activation

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Saturday 05-24-2025 | 6:30pm-10:00pm

Join us for a mind-blowing experience as Shekina Ray and Shiva J teach you all about the power of energy orgasms!

Massage Date Night (For couples)

w/Rani Ranee and Shiva J

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Sunday 05-25-2025 | 6:30pm-10:00pm

Reconnect, rejuvenate and rekindle your intimacy with our Massage Date Night—a unique, sensual experience designed exclusively for couples.

May New Moon Ceremony

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Monday 05-26-2025 | 6:30 pm-10:00 pm

Join us for a nourishing May New Moon Ceremony. Set intentions rooted in abundance, align with fresh possibilities, and connect to the fertile energy of new beginnings.

Sacred Cacao Ceremony & Play Party w/Aphrodite

@ private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Friday 05-30-2025 | 7:00pm-11:00pm

Open your heart for deep connection.

The Archetypes Workshop for Men

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Friday 06-06-2025 | 7:30pm-11:00pm

A monthly circle of brotherhood where men gather to become better men, better husbands, better fathers, better sons.

Snuggle party 2.0!!!

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Saturday 06-07-2025 | 7:30pm-12:00am

You asked, and we listened! After receiving a wealth of feedback from our vibrant community, we’ve refined the Snuggle Party Agreements and Protocols to be even more inclusive and welcoming and to help foster a more energetically balanced evening. Please read this invite thoroughly before you purchase a ticket as we have updated our protocols and agreements!

Connection Games w/Shiva J

@private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Sunday 06-08-2025 | 6:00pm-9:00pm

A masterfully facilitated experience that gives participants a hands-on taste of both the joy and skills of interpersonal connection.

Summer Solstice Shamanic Ceremony

@ private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Saturday 06-21-2025 | 9:00am-5:00pm

One Day and Night in San Diego city for a ceremony with music and medicine lead by a facilitator with 14 years experience and sober guides.

Illuminated Bliss: A Blacklight Body Painting Puja

@ private residence (Old Town, San Diego)

Saturday 08-16-2025 | 7:30pm-11:00pm

Join us for a magical night of body painting under blacklights at Illuminated Bliss - let's glow and flow together!.

The Heart Centered Being LLC. | Old Town | San Diego, CA 92110 US

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