Ever had a friend, colleague, or family member who wholeheartedly means what they say when they say it, yet rarely follows through? They mean well, they do. Yet you’ve realized, more often than not, that you can’t count on them, unless you’re living in the land of Wish, Dream, and Hope that this time, they really will keep their word. Their pattern is established. It’s on you to deal with that.
Do you lower expectations, see them less, create unstructured gatherings, or decide you’ve had enough, looking elsewhere for whatever you thought they add to your life?
Among your past, current, and future clients, you’ve probably also experienced “I’ll send you the material/payment/feedback this week.” Again, you have choices.
What if YOU are like that? You mean what you say when you say it, frequently falling short of delivering your promise. And, your attitude is some form of “that’s just how I am.” Now THAT is something you CAN manage.