It is with mixed emotions that I share the news of Shelise Gieseke’s departure from her role as Head of Operations at Adoption Mosaic. Shelise has been a dear friend, trusted colleague, and an invaluable part of our team, shaping so much of what Adoption Mosaic is today. Her journey with us began in 2008 as a volunteer, and she has touched countless lives in the adoption community with her passion for reframing the adoption narrative. From behind-the-scenes operations to the programs and workshops we offer, her influence is woven into everything we do. Whether you’ve attended a panel, participated in a workshop, or connected with us online, you’ve likely felt the warmth and dedication she brought to her work. A therapist recently reminded me that goodbyes can be particularly hard for adoptees, often stirring up complex emotions. So, instead of saying goodbye, I’ll say “until next time my friend and may your light continue to shine brightly as you move forward.” As Shelise moves on, I invite you to join me in wishing her success and happiness in her future endeavors. We will miss her greatly, and I know her next adventure will be just as impactful as her time with us.
While we celebrate Shelise’s contributions and wish her well, I also want to acknowledge that this has been a challenging time for many in our community. The recent announcement of China ending overseas adoption, along with the Frontline special investigating years of adoption corruption in Korea, is difficult news for us to process. In times like these, it's important to prioritize self-care and well-being.
Here are 6 tips to practice self-care during these challenging times:
Allow Yourself to Feel All the Feels! Acknowledging your emotions and accepting them, even if they feel overwhelming. Giving yourself permission to feel is a form of healing. We are allowed to be sad, angry, frustrated, lost, curious, confused, etc.
Connect with Supportive People. Reach out to your community, whether that’s other adoptees, friends, or a trusted therapist. Talking things through with someone who understands can provide comfort and clarity. There are adoptees who are hosting events to support our community. See below for resources and groups.
Take Breaks from the Media. Constant news updates can be emotionally draining. It’s okay to step away from the news and social media to protect your mental health.
Engage in Activities that Ground You. Whether it’s spending time in nature, practicing mindfulness, or engaging in creative outlets, find something that helps you feel grounded and centered.
Seek Professional Support if Needed. If you’re struggling, don’t hesitate to seek help from a mental health professional who understands the adoption experience. Therapy can offer invaluable support during challenging times.
Connect with Adoption Mosaic. We are here to support you in finding resources to meet your needs.
Don’t forget to register for our 3rd annual Adoptee Mixer toward the end of October as we head into NAAM (National Adoptee Awareness Month).
With gratitude and love,
