A topic that is both delicate and profound has been on my mind lately - estrangement. For some within our community, estrangement is a reality lived every day, whether it be estrangement from members of their biological families, their adoptive families, or both. For others, it's a concept they witness friends or loved ones navigate, often in isolation. We understand the courage it takes to voice experiences that are often shrouded in secrecy and shame. Whether directly affected by estrangement or not, this issue affects many within our community.
At Adoption Mosaic, estrangement means the loss or lack of connection between an individual and some or all of their family members. It is not a fleeting disagreement, but a profound and often permanent change in relationships. Within the adoption community, this can manifest in various ways: an adoptee feeling disconnected from their adoptive family, deciding to distance oneself from biological relatives after a reunion, or the challenge of communicating the complex emotions surrounding belonging and identity.
Estrangement is a path taken by some, not by choice, but as a means of seeking peace, autonomy, or healing. It is essential to understand that the decision to become estranged, or the condition of being estranged, is laden with complexity and deep emotion. Adoption Mosaic recognizes the urgent need for judgment-free spaces where the experience of estrangement can be explored, so we decided to create communities where these explorations can begin; where individuals can find understanding, support, and a sense of belonging. Through open dialogue, we believe we can begin to dismantle the isolation and shame that can accompany estrangement.
We would also like to recognize the work conducted by Dr. Amanda Baden, a leading researcher in the field of adoption. Dr. Baden is conducting groundbreaking research to deepen our understanding of this issue and bring awareness about estrangement. Her team of researchers is leveraging the insights gathered from our We the Experts online panel discussions, among other resources, to pioneer new pathways for support and understanding.
Our commitment to addressing the lack of resources on this topic is unwavering. We are providing a space where voices are heard, and experiences are validated. Your stories, your insights, and your presence are what make our community strong. For those who have felt alone in their journey of estrangement, we want you to know that you are seen, you are heard, and you belong here.
