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A Note From Sarah

I've been thinking about how loud a quiet decision can be.

Not the ones you agonise over on a whiteboard, the other kind. Every column adds up, the logic is sound, and still something in you won't sign. We're taught to override that feeling. Push through. Trust the plan. But the more of these conversations I have, the more I think that quiet resistance is often the smartest voice in the room.

That's the heart of this month's article, What Three Business Owners Taught Me About the Answers That Don't Show Up on a Spreadsheet. Christina, Charlie and Dawn each had the numbers on their side, a merger, a deal, a signed contract and each stopped because their body got there before their spreadsheet did. The data was never the problem. Hearing themselves over the noise was.

My podcast guest, Frank Fleming, calls this catching your blind spots. He went from commercial fishing to founding a software company, and what stayed with me is his belief that the best decisions are never made alone.

Which is what this month's reflection question reaches for: not is it finished? but what would it feel like to have done this well?

So it's no accident the book club fits. We're reading Listen by Kathryn Mannix, a book about the hardest kind of listening there is. Join us on Monday 13th October.

The answer is usually already in you. The work is getting quiet enough to hear it.

Thank you, as always, for being here.

Thank you, as always, for being here. This community is growing into something I'm genuinely proud of and I can't wait for you to hear what's coming.

Podcast

Meeting At The Crossroads Podcast with Sarah Daly

Episode 4 is live on the 24th September "Eliminating Blind Spots in Business".

My guest is Frank Fleming, who took a path few would predict, from the unforgiving world of commercial fishing to founding a software company. It was an industry that taught him to live comfortably with risk, and to never rest on his laurels even when things were going well, lessons that would shape every decision that followed

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Years later, Frank faced his own crossroads: the pivot from consultancy into building software. It's an honest, thoughtful conversation about blind spot, the ones you don't even know you have, why the best decisions are never made alone, and the one question he asks himself when he looks back that keeps regret firmly off the table.

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If someone comes to mind, a business owner or director who has navigated a real crossroads moment and would be willing to share it, I'd love an introduction. It doesn't need to be a polished story or a success. The most powerful episodes will be the honest ones.

 

Just email me at sarah@sarahdaly.com with the subject line Guest for Meeting at the Crossroads, tell me a little about them, and I'll take it from there.

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Article

Decision Making: What Three Business Owners Taught Me About the Answers That Don’t Show Up on a Spreadsheet

The numbers made sense but none of these business owners used them to make their decision. Christina was ready to merge but there was an unspoken fear holding her back. A doctor’s warning brought Charley to her crossroads. And for Dawn, she had the contract signed but something told her not to press finish. 

In this article I delve into the pattern that has already emerged in just three conversations on my podcast ‘Meeting At The Crossroads’. When faced with big decisions in their business lives, each guest found that their personal lives and their bodies played an even bigger role in coming to a decision than the numbers on a spreadsheet. 

While traditional business sense will tell us that this is ‘airy-fairy’, I dig into the science behind it - the role of the ‘gut’ in big decision making, while also acknowledging that getting to that place of making the right decision can be work in itself. The numbers tell one story, but can’t tell you if the decision is right on a personal level. 

Read the full article here
Meeting At The Crossroads podcast

Question

Question For Reflection

These questions won't all apply to you right now. Some will land immediately. Others will circle back later, at a different moment, with a different weight. The ones that make you uncomfortable are usually the ones worth returning to.

What would it feel like to have done this well?

Not finished - done well. On your terms, at your pace, with clarity and without regret. Hold that picture. It will tell you what you're actually aiming for, which is not always what you think.

Podcast

Podcast Recommendations

Everyday Business PODCAST with Aidan Donnelly & Fidelma McGuirk - CEO and founder of Payslip - The move to the West and creating her new job.

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Book Club

September 2026 Book Club

Listen: How to Find the Words for Tender Conversations

by Kathryn Mannix

Date: Monday, 13th October '26
Time:
19:30 (UK / Ireland time or GMT+1)
Location:
Online via Zoom

Duration:  60 - 90 minutes

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