Erotic Assignment - Attend a Sex Club Swingers Party
This one is probably going to mean a HUGE step out of your comfort zone and into new territory but Guess what?!
You don't have to jump, you can dip your toes in slowly, see what you think.
Swingers parties are probably not at all what you think they are like, if you've never attended one you'd probably be really surprised to know that they are really like regular friends hanging out and chilling and then eventually things get steamy but really at first its normal mingling and getting to know each other and vibing. Then as it gets spicy the choices are all yours, you can watch, you can get some kisses, some snuggles, you can literally jut engage with your own partner while other people watch or engage around near and next to you. There's so many choices and everything requires communication and consent.
The most important thing to remember is NO JUDGEMENT OR SHAME! These get togethers are a place of open sexual expression don't bring negativity with you.
It's beautiful and amazingly eye opening in most cases.
If you aren't ready for that step a local much- get together can literally be like minded people meeting at a bar and getting to know each other.
Have questions on how to approach this or how to talk about it with your partner?
Ask away !
